Wednesday, February 5, 2020

Aging Well


We live in a day when our culture puts the most value on people who are at the prime of their life. One such example is those whose beauty is at its climax, and those whose strength and performance are optimum. Babies, children, and the elderly are of less value because either they have not reached the preferred age or they have passed it. This view of life is in stark contradiction to the Biblical view of life. As Christians, we see life as a gift no matter what age we are.

David prayed that God would show him how his life would end and give him a sense of how long he would live. He also asked God to give him an awareness of how fleeting his life was. What a perceptive prayer, because with this insight, we can focus on what really matters in life. The petty things that rob us of our peace and interpersonal harmony with others just don’t matter. Whatever age we are, knowing what is important in life changes the quality of our lives (Ps 39:4).

When we face life with a Biblical worldview, we understand that death is an inevitable part of life. God wills our death according to His sovereign will. It is, therefore, comforting to us when we learn to accept that will and align our will with his.

Abraham's final years seem to have brought him peace because his end is given unusual space in the Bible as well as presenting a picture of satisfaction.  “Altogether, Abraham lived a hundred and seventy-five years. Then Abraham breathed his last and died at a good old age, an old man and full of years; and he was gathered to his people” (Gen 25:7-8).

What a relief to each of us to accept our mortality and to understand that we have an allotted number of days to live. Living life with this perspective allows us to concentrate our energy on things that have enteral value. Abraham's epitaph tells us that he was gathered to his people, not just buried. His eyes were on his eternal abode. Earth could never be his final home. The writer of Hebrews says: “For he was looking forward to the city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God” (Heb 11:10).

Abraham aged well and enjoyed his life; all the while he waited for his heavenly home. Here are some thoughts from Alexander Solzhenitsyn, who writes about aging from a Bible perspective:

Aging is in no sense a punishment from on high, but brings its own blessings and a warmth of colors all its own. There is, warmth to be drawn from the waning of your own strength.... You can no longer get through a whole day's work but how good it is to slip into the brief oblivion of sleep, and what a gift to wake up once more to the clarity of your second or third morning of the day You are still of this life, yet you are rising above the material plane. Growing old serenely is not a downhill path but an ascent.[i]

What a legacy Abraham, this great man of faith, has left us! Each of us will leave a legacy, but will it be a legacy of faith and hope? Legacies are built one day at a time doing the will of God. Legacies are made in small ways and in obedience to God’s call on our life, as it was in Abraham’s life.


[i] David Remnick, “Letter from Moscow: Deep in the Wood,” New Yorker, August 6, 2001, pp. 23-40.

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