James Dobson relates this story in his book, Stories of the
Heart and Home. It’s entitled The Lost Marble.
When I was a boy, I heard a mystery program on
the radio that captured my imagination. It told the story of a man who was
condemned to solitary confinement in a pitch-black cell. The only thing he had
to occupy his mind was a marble, which he threw repeatedly against the walls.
He spent his hours listening to the marble as it bounced and rolled around the
room. Then he would grope in the darkness until he found his precious toy.
One day, the prisoner threw his marble upward,
but it failed to come down. Only silence echoed through the darkness. He was
deeply disturbed by the “evaporation” of the marble and his inability to
explain its disappearance. Finally, he went berserk, pulled out all his hair,
and died. When the prison officials came to remove his body, a guard noticed
something caught in a huge spider’s web in the upper corner of the room. That’s
strange, he thought. I wonder how a marble got up there.
As the story of the frantic prisoner
illustrates, human perception sometimes poses questions the mind is incapable
of answering. But valid answers always exist. For those of us who are followers
of Jesus Christ, it just makes good sense not to depend too heavily on our
ability to make the pieces fit—especially when we’re trying to figure out the
Almighty.
I sometimes tell people who are struggling to figure out the “Why” of their life this illustration: If you were on a ship and you pushed off an anvil, it would sink to the bottom of the ocean because it would not float. However, leaving it on the ship does not sink the ship. We all have questions that we cannot answer in life, no matter how hard we try. If we refuse to be patient and trust God for the answers, it will cause us pain. But if we wait, they will not sink the ship. Sometimes, with the passing of time itself, we answer our own questions; others will be answered in heaven by God himself. The important thing is our ability to trust God.