When using the word motivation, it is helpful to see some of
its synonyms, such as motive, inspiration, inducement, and cause, to
help us better understand the word. What
I really want to talk about is the intellectual, emotional, physical and
spiritual impetus that drives us forward toward our goals in life. In Spanish,
one of the words for motivation is ganas.
I like this word because it seems to place emphasis on desire. We need
motivation and desire in life to succeed, and yet there are many ways to lose
our motivation.
Consider some of the ways
people lose their ganas. Discouragement comes when our expectations are not
met. Our desire can be deflated when we are unable to resolve a problem or a
conflict. Disappointment can come in many shapes and sizes and can even sneak
up on us, ravaging our motivation. Some are disappointed in their accomplishments
and especially failures, and others are disappointed in someone who let them
down; still others are disappointed in themselves.
Regardless of the source,
disappointment will diminish desire and leave you without motivation to keep
on. Here are a few suggestions to help improve your ganas. First, start with an
examination of your expectations and make sure they are reasonable. Secondly,
make sure you have long-term goals because a sustained perspective is essential
to maintain motivation. We are made in such a way that we have to have a
purpose—something to live for. Define what it is that you want to be a part of
and begin working toward it. Thirdly, apply discipline to your life. If you
think, will, and act, then feelings will catch-up. The opposite is not true,
however. Fourthly, ask God to give you the desire you need to pursue your
goals. Paul wrote these words to the Philippians: “…for it is God who works in
you to will and to act according to his good purpose.” Paul affirms for the
believer that God is at work in our lives giving us the desire to live
purposeful lives. It makes sense that the omnipotent God of creation, who fashioned
the universe to run in intricate order and design, would want that for our
lives.
Lastly, one of the greatest motivating forces on
this earth is encouragement. One little word of encouragement can do wonders
for a waning desire. I want you to know that God is on your side. Paul said so,
“If God is for us, who can be against us?” (Roman 8:31). One of the most
visible ways that God is for us is the way he constantly works out our mistakes
and incorporates them into his plans. I love this verse: “And we know that in
all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called
according to his purpose” (Romans 8:28). This truth, when understood, will do
more for your motivation than anything else in life. It means you can honestly
trust God to take everything you do—your successes and your failures and use
them in the construction of a life that honors him.