After a long day’s journey, Jesus and his
disciples arrived at the town of Nain, having traveled about twenty-five miles
from Capernaum. Jesus immediately encountered a funeral procession at the entrance
of the town. In those days, as in many parts of the world even today, the
funeral procession leaves the house and people follow the coffin to the cemetery.
At this procession a lonely woman preceded the coffin which brought her
directly to Jesus. People were wailing and others were making mourning sounds.
The widow woman walked alone without a
husband or any other children. The heartbroken woman was on her way to bury her
only son. She would be left alone with no one to provide for her. Luke says
that when Jesus saw her, his heart went out to her, and he said, “Don’t cry”
(Luke 7:13). Jesus was moved with compassion for the woman.
Empathy
transforms moments and brings deep meaning into relationships. Jesus’ empathy
transformed the moment for this woman. If a husband can grasp what his wife is
going through and empathize with her, she will be comforted and drawn to him.
If a mother can understand and identify with the struggle her son is having, he
will be encouraged. But if this is so, then why does it happen so little in our
lives? It is because we are a people of self-focus. We are inhibited because of
the shame we carry, or angry because of resentment, or jealous because of a
comparison, and unfortunately we cannot grasp the pain of another. If Jesus can
teach us a lesson that would bring life to our families, it would be this—the
ability to care deeply for each other.
When Jesus says, “Don’t cry” to the woman, he
isn’t proposing that she repress her emotions. Rather he is offering her hope—a
reason not to cry. She cries, for her loss and sadness is all that she has, but
Jesus is about to give her much more than that. Luke continues the story as
Jesus went up and touched the coffin, and those carrying it stood still. He
said, "Young man, I say to you, get up!" The dead man sat up and began to talk, and
Jesus gave him back to his mother (Luke 7:14-15).
What an amazing picture this is as Jesus
confronts death. He would confront it again and again, and each time he would
be the victor. When Jesus spoke, the boy heard. His body didn’t, but his spirit
did. The lifeless, cold body came to life as the heart started beating and the
blood began flowing through his arteries again after having been dead for
hours. He sat up in his own coffin and began to talk. I’m not sure what he said
or if anyone actually heard him since most would have been in a complete state
of shock.
That same voice—the voice of Jesus who alone
can speak to death will speak to all God’s children no matter where their
bodies were deposited. From millions of cemeteries around the world to the
depths of the sea, even from the thin air, Jesus will call their bodies to life
with his word. Hear these amazing words from John: "Do not be amazed at
this, for a time is coming when all who are in their graves will hear his voice”
(John 5:28).
I remember my father coming into my room as a
boy and saying, “Son, it’s time to wake up.” I would open my eyes and see my
father’s face. John says there is going to be a day when all of those who have preceded
us in death will hear his voice. He is going to say, “Get up, Arlie. Wake up,
Troy. Time to get up, Ken; it’s resurrection morning!" We will wake up and
see his face. What a day to look forward to.