Gratitude

Every year around this time I like to write about gratitude. It is such a noble virtue that completely changes our outlook on life. It makes us different and more attractive to the people around us. The reason it is important to work on gratitude is because without realizing it we often take so many things for granted. Here are a couple of examples.

A well-to-do businessman passed an old woman selling pretzels on the street on his way to his office. Every day he would rush by and toss a quarter in her cup, but never take a pretzel. He did so for several years, and finally one day he put down his quarter, and the lady took him by the arm and looked at him. And he looked at her and said, “You probably want to know why every day I leave twenty-five cents in the cup and never take a pretzel.” And she said, “No, I just want to tell you that pretzels are thirty-five cents now.

A man asked the postal clerk to fill out a postcard because he couldn’t write. When the clerk was finished he asked the man if there was anything else he needed. The man replied, “Write, ‘Please excuse the handwriting.’”

Though these stories are humorous, they are so typical of human behavior. It is actually quite easy to take people that God has placed in our lives for granted. When we overlook who they are and what they do for us, we miss seeing God’s hand working in our lives in wondrous ways.

The dictionary definition of gratitude is the quality of being thankful. What are you thankful for today? Let me tell you a few of things that I am thankful for. I am grateful for my parents and their investment into my life.  I am grateful for my wife, to whom I have been married for forty-two years. I am grateful for my three children and their spouses and for my five grandchildren. I am thankful for God’s faithful provision to me and my family over the years. I am grateful to God for his mercy and grace that He has poured out on me in the form of so many blessings that I did not deserve. I am so grateful for Jesus. I am thankful that he has saved me and cleansed me by his blood. I am thankful for the promise of eternity in heaven with Jesus and with all of God’s redeemed. David wrote many of his psalms with a grateful heart. Here is one of those psalms filled with gratitude:

Psalms 103:1-14

Praise the Lord, O my soul;

all my inmost being, praise his holy name.

2 Praise the Lord, O my soul,

and forget not all his benefits — 

3 who forgives all your sins

and heals all your diseases,

4 who redeems your life from the pit

and crowns you with love and compassion,

5 who satisfies your desires with good things

so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's.

6 The Lord works righteousness

and justice for all the oppressed.

7 He made known his ways to Moses,

his deeds to the people of Israel:

8 The Lord is compassionate and gracious,

slow to anger, abounding in love.

9 He will not always accuse,

nor will he harbor his anger forever;

10 he does not treat us as our sins deserve

or repay us according to our iniquities.

11 For as high as the heavens are above the earth,

so great is his love for those who fear him;

12 as far as the east is from the west,

so far has he removed our transgressions from us.

13 As a father has compassion on his children,

so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him;

14 for he knows how we are formed,

he remembers that we are dust.

Good Advice

Good advice is hard to come by. In fact, people pay high dollars to experts for their advice. There are financial experts, legal experts, medical experts, psychological experts and exercise specialists. However, often the common sense advice we need for daily living is even harder to find. One man named John wrote some letters in the New Testament that are filled with good common sense advice. He was one of Jesus’ disciples, and he was in his 90’s when he wrote these letters. Here are the basic guidelines for living:

Don’t Dabble in Sin: 1 John 2:1 My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin.

Stay Close to Jesus: 1 John 2:1  …But if anybody does sin, we have one who speaks to the Father in our defense — Jesus Christ, the Righteous One.

You Have an Advocate: 1 John 2:1-2 ….But if anybody does sin, we have one who speaks to the Father in our defense — Jesus Christ, the Righteous One. He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world.

Live Like a Child of God: 1 John 2:3-6 ….The man who says, "I know him," but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in him…This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must walk as Jesus did.

Our Obedience Reveals Our Respect for God: 1 John 2:5 But if anyone obeys his word, God's love is truly made complete in him. This is how we know we are in him:

Let Jesus Be Your Hero: 1 John 2:6 Whoever claims to live in him must walk as Jesus did.

There you have it—six basic rules that will literally make a difference in our lives. When we really understand how dangerous sin is, we will stay away from it. That means we will remove ourselves from the temptation the way Joseph did when he ran from Potiphar’s wife. John advises us to take the scriptures literally.

When my grandson Donovan was two, he had to undergo some eye exams. It was bit of a scary process for him, so he clung to his mom. They needed to take one more x-ray from a particular angle, but he didn’t want any more of this. He had his arms and legs wrapped around his mother. My daughter said, “Donovan they just want to take a picture of you.” Then without relinquishing any of his grip on her, he looked at the doctor and nurse and said, “Cheese.” He was staying close to his mom.

There are times when we will all mess up—we will sin. John says, “Don’t forget you have an advocate who will go to the Father for you.” He has never lost a case, and the evidence he presents doesn’t depend on your goodness, but on Christ’s atoning death. John won’t let us off the hook in this letter. The man who says he loves his wife and family but is unfaithful—is a liar. The woman who is rude and unkind to her husband is a liar, John says. The man who says he loves God but doesn’t live like it is a liar and a hypocrite. Our actions validate or invalidate our words.

John loved Jesus so much that he was known as the Apostle who loved Jesus. The more we love Jesus the more he will mean to us. Solomon said it this way, Jesus is “altogether lovely” (Song of Solomon 5:16).