Friday, August 10, 2012

The Most Important Question


What is the most important question you can think of? Maybe it depends on your age. For some it might be, “How can I make more money?” or “Which career will I choose?”  Still for others, “What school will I attend?”  For others, “Where can I find that special person I want to meet?” or “How can I best follow my dream?”  As important as these questions may be, the Bible says there is a more important question that must come first and should always remain first.  The prophet Jeremiah said this is a question you want to keep asking yourself all the way through life. The question is “Where is God in my life?”

Things went terribly wrong for the Israelites in Jeremiah’s day, and they looked everywhere for a solution, but found none. Jeremiah forcefully blamed those responsible for the national dilemma, “They did not ask, 'Where is the LORD, who brought us up out of Egypt and led us through the barren wilderness…” (Jer. 2:6).  The prophet’s preaching was soul searching.  “Does a maiden forget her jewelry, a bride her wedding ornaments?  Yet my people have forgotten me, days without number” (Jer. 2:32).  How could this possibly happen?  Jeremiah responds: “This is what the LORD says: "What fault did your fathers find in me, that they strayed so far from me?  They followed worthless idols and became worthless themselves” (Jer. 2:5).

This question was not just for the Israelites; it is for us today. We, like ancient Israel, have followed worthless things.  We, too, have been distracted by petty pursuits and gotten our eyes off of the Lord. Just as they were infatuated by something else and were lured away, so are we, as the way a husband or wife becomes unfaithful to their marriage partner.  Look around you, and you will see unfaithfulness all around, and we are paying a terrible price for it.

It is time to ask this question with soul searching intensity, “Where is God in my life?” “Where is God in my family?” Remember, God never left Israel; they left him. Is it possible to be faithful to God in the midst of a faithless world? Jeremiah would tell us yes, it is possible. The way back to faithfulness is through repentance. Are you as close to God as you want to be?

Jeremiah asked God to give him an assessment of his spiritual condition, and God gave this report to the prophet: "If you have raced with men on foot and they have worn you out, how can you compete with horses?  If you stumble in safe country, how will you manage in the thickets by the Jordan?” (Jer. 12:5).

God was saying to Jeremiah, if you can’t handle your present challenges, how do you expect me to entrust you with the great things I have planned for your life?  What God expected from Jeremiah was complete trust. This is crucial in our spiritual formation and development. Superficial faith can look pretty good until it is tested. I believe there are some major trials ahead for the church here in America, and many of us are not prepared to run with the horses because we have been stumbling through our menial daily tasks. We still find it hard to get along with family members and our brothers and sisters in Christ. We still struggle to control our emotions and keep our feelings in check. For many of us, our relationships are impoverished because of our inconsistency in living the authentic Christian life. Let me challenge you to ask this question every day, “Where is God in my life today?”





Friday, August 3, 2012

More Than Chicken


This past Wednesday I joined thousands of conservatives from across the nation who went to Chick-Fil-A and showed their support of traditional marriage. I stood for an hour and fifteen minutes in a line that started outside and wound its way slowly to the counter. I was completely amazed that people would stand in triple-digit heat to buy some chicken, but this was about much more than chicken. My impressions of what I saw that day and from what I read are encouraging. I believe the overwhelming response to defend our beliefs was a grass roots effort to say we have values. This was about defending our right to speak out and have religious freedom. For far too long conservatives, and especially Christians, have been openly discriminated against, and it’s time we stood up for our right to speak out. If we don’t, we will lose this wonderful gift that God gave us. In my opinion, last Wednesday was a preview of the November Election. Let us be vigilant and encourage all of our families and friends to register and be prepared to vote in this General Election on November 6, 2012.

I, for one, would like to say that I am not anti-gay, and I condemn anyone who discriminates against gays. However, standing for traditional marriage as defined as one man and one woman who make a life-time commitment to each other is not discrimination against gays, regardless of who says so. To the contrary, it is the Biblical definition of marriage, and as Christians, we cannot and will not forfeit our beliefs for the sake of political correctness.

Maggie Gallagher defines marriage this way:

Marriage is everywhere the word we use to describe a publicly acknowledged and supported sexual union between a man and woman which creates rights and obligations between the couple and any children the union may produce. Marriage as a public tie obligates not only the fathers, but the father’s kin to recognize the children of this union. In every society, marriage is the sexual union where childbearing and the raising is not only tolerated but applauded and encouraged. Marriage is the way in which every society attempts to channel the erotic energies of men and women into a relatively narrow but highly fruitful channel—to give every child the father his or her heart desires.
…Marriage is the fundamental, cross cultural institution for bridging the male and female divide so that children have loving, committed mothers and fathers. Marriage is inherently normative: it is about holding out a certain kind of relationship as a social ideal, especially when there are children involved. Marriage is not simply an artifact of law; neither is it a mere delivery mechanism for a set of legal benefits that might as well be shared more broadly. Laws of marriage do not create marriage, but in societies ruled by law, they help trace the boundaries and sustain the public meanings of marriage.[i]



[i] Maggie Gallagher, “What Is Marriage For?,” Weekly Standard,  11 August 2003, 23.